Starting a women’s circle can feel like a big step, especially if you’re unsure where to begin. But the beauty of a women’s circle lies in its flexibility—it’s a space created by you, for you and the women who resonate with your vision. Whether you’re looking to share stories, hold rituals, or simply connect on a deeper level, your circle will naturally evolve to reflect your values and intentions.
Trust the process.
Ultimately, a women’s circle is a calling, not a cookie-cutter concept. By trusting your instincts and creating a space that feels authentic to you, you will naturally attract the right people—your tribe. Let’s explore how to take the first steps and make empowered choices for your circle.
How Do You Know If You’re Ready to Start a Women’s Circle?
A women’s circle may be calling you if:
• You feel the need for deeper connections with other women.
• You’ve been craving a space to share and express yourself without judgement.
• You’re passionate about holding space for others to feel seen, heard, and supported.
• You want to explore creativity, spirituality, or personal growth in a communal setting.
If any of these resonate with you, it’s likely time to take the leap and start creating the circle you’ve been longing for.
What Should a Women’s Circle Include?
The beauty of a women’s circle is that it’s entirely customisable. You can choose activities, themes, and even rituals based on the needs and interests of your group. Here are some steps and considerations:
1. Define Your Circle’s Purpose
Start by asking yourself:
• Why am I creating this circle?
• What do I want myself and others to gain from it?
• Is it for self-expression, healing, spirituality, creativity, or simply connection?
Starting a women’s circle is not about perfection; it’s about connection.
Defining a purpose helps you determine the tone of your circle. For example:
• If the purpose is healing, you might focus on emotional sharing and mindfulness practices.
• If it’s about creativity, you could include activities like journaling, art, or music.
• If it’s for connection, keep it informal with casual discussions and shared experiences.
2. Decide on Activities
Activities should feel aligned with your purpose and be accessible to your group. Here are some ideas to consider:
• Opening Rituals: Lighting candles, breathing exercises, or setting an intention for the session.
• Sharing Circle: Allow each woman to speak uninterrupted, sharing thoughts, feelings, or experiences.
• Creative Expression: Journaling, painting, poetry, or crafting.
• Movement: Gentle yoga, dance, or even a simple stretching routine.
• Mindfulness Practices: Guided meditations, visualisations, or gratitude exercises.
• Storytelling: Sharing personal stories or reading inspiring passages.
• Closing Rituals: Expressing gratitude, affirmations, or a group chant.
3. Alcohol or No Alcohol?
The choice of whether to include alcohol depends on the vibe you want to create:
• Alcohol-Free: This is ideal for circles focused on mindfulness, spirituality, or healing, where clarity and presence are important.
• With Alcohol: If your circle has a more casual, celebratory vibe (like connecting over shared experiences), a glass of wine or cocktail can set a relaxed tone.
Tip: Be mindful of your group’s preferences and ensure everyone feels comfortable. Some members may prefer a substance-free space.
4. Religious or Not?
This decision is entirely up to you and the values of your group.
• Religious Circle: If spirituality or shared religious beliefs are central to your circle, you can incorporate prayers, rituals, or scriptures.
• Non-Religious Circle: Focus on universal practices like mindfulness, gratitude, or creativity, which can resonate across beliefs.
Remember: You don’t have to choose one or the other. A circle can blend spiritual elements (e.g., meditation) without being tied to a specific religion.
5. Practical Tips for a Successful Circle
• Set Boundaries: Ensure the circle is a safe, non-judgmental space where everyone’s voice is respected.
• Create a Ritual Flow: Open with a grounding activity, move into sharing or activities, and close with a moment of gratitude or reflection.
• Be Flexible: While having a plan is helpful, leave room for organic conversation and connection.
• Keep It Intimate: Smaller groups (6–12 people) create a deeper sense of connection.
How to Attract Your Tribe
You don’t need to stress about “finding the right people.” By setting an authentic intention, you will naturally draw the women who align with your vision. Here are some ways to attract your tribe:
• Word of Mouth: Start with close friends or acquaintances who share your values.
• Social Media: Share your vision on platforms like Instagram or Facebook, using hashtags like #WomensCircle or #SacredGathering.
• Community Boards: If you want a diverse group, consider posting about your circle at local cafes, community centers, or yoga studios.
Trust the process—you will attract the women who are meant to be part of your circle.
Empowerment Through Choice
There’s no right or wrong way to create a women’s circle. The key is to make choices that feel aligned with your values and purpose. By trusting your instincts and embracing the process, you’ll create a space that uplifts not only yourself but everyone who joins.
Remember: Starting a women’s circle is not about perfection; it’s about connection. Whether your circle focuses on healing, creativity, spirituality, or simply being together, the most important thing is that it feels authentic to you. When you listen to your calling, the right people will follow.
Your Circle, Your Way
Are you ready to start your own women’s circle? Trust your vision, take the first step, and watch as your tribe begins to form. There’s no greater gift than creating a space where women can come together, connect, and grow.
What kind of women’s circle do you envision? Share your thoughts with us at hello@womenscircleofmalaysia.com and let us know how we can support you on your journey!
